USA H1B Breaking Families and Ruining Careers...? Hindi (English CC)

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  • Опубликовано: 15 июл 2020
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  • @user-ll9uu6nz9t
    @user-ll9uu6nz9t 4 года назад +112

    He hammered the nail when he said, "what are you gonna do with your green card if u don't have a job". I did my bachelors and masters in engineering from Australia and yes quiet a struggle during student visa days and equally stressful obtaining permanent residency. Cost of living is ridiculously high here. I never got a job in my field after my graduation and its been 7 years now i finished my postgrad. Now the qualification is irrelevant. There are plenty with same situation here. I have the residency but not the job in my field. But my cousin who same as my age, went to US and works in his field but doesnt have permanent residency. Dont even ask about racism

    • @user-ll9uu6nz9t
      @user-ll9uu6nz9t 4 года назад +21

      @Joe Al intend to recover all the money i have wasted of my parents on the misadventure. Would like to return to india with dignity.

    • @baxakk7374
      @baxakk7374 4 года назад +3

      In Economics, the cost you incurred in the past is called sunk cost, it's gone and you can't get it back. But at the same time if your purpose was to make money, you could get any kind of job in Aus and make some money I guess.
      However, if your purpose was to become an engineer and if you really love it, then you should go where you can do it no matter what you have spent before.

    • @sammysam928
      @sammysam928 3 года назад +5

      So have you thought of going. back to Australia? I am a Canadian citizen that became a US citizen as well, recently. Eventually I will go back to Canada, for the quality of life is better in CANADA

    • @adityamahla
      @adityamahla 3 года назад +3

      I graduated in 2017. Got my PR and citizenship but couldnt find field job till date. Should have stayed back in India and get some field experience and directly move to Australia without student visa path. Way easier to get job if you have Indian corporate experience. Even thn you can't have senior position like in India.

    • @AavegSheth
      @AavegSheth 3 года назад

      true man

  • @jimbarr2347
    @jimbarr2347 3 года назад +72

    Very informative. As an American who has enjoyed working with many Indians over the years, I now better understand the plight of those wishing to live and work (and raise their families) here in the US.

    • @biebersucks27
      @biebersucks27 3 года назад +11

      Being an Indian is like playing the game of life on Hard mode

    • @satyamsinha5429
      @satyamsinha5429 2 года назад

      The Current Schema in not worth it for Indians !

  • @kiransalunkhe8137
    @kiransalunkhe8137 4 года назад +8

    Thank you for addressing concerns of many people. Knowing reality is better so that decisions are easier. You are helping many of us.

  • @bhatiarahul18
    @bhatiarahul18 4 года назад +78

    I was passionate about migrating USA .I cleared all exams of doctor .but one day my father s sudden health deterioration has set me back and that was best thing happened to me .I asked my self does my father deserves loneliness in his old age ,? he has not thought about his 20s , 30s and 40s and created empire from ZERO .If he could in 90s then why I can't in 2020 ? now I am passionate about india!

    • @sammysam928
      @sammysam928 3 года назад +1

      Well this is a personal decision - concerning the heart. What matters more - wealth or being with you dad? There is no easy answer, but follow your heart and go with it. If in the future you believe it wasn't the right thing - just erase that thought from your mind. Only the future can say if the decision was wrong or right...

    • @bhatiarahul18
      @bhatiarahul18 3 года назад +5

      @@sammysam928 wealth is just concept of mind created by this Supply and demand rule . in this pandemic time .when economy and stock market is shrinking and crashing , wealth is shirnking too . 100 years before 100k $wealth was making you richest . but now it is average . so it is only relative term . there is no absolute wealth which can make you happy . and in both countries people are getting rich in same percentage level . this TRUTH I realized in my 20s

    • @asutoshghanto3419
      @asutoshghanto3419 3 года назад +4

      what is the point of remaining here for your dad when your future generation has to suffer from reservation and never become doctor in india.

    • @bgi384
      @bgi384 2 года назад

      Lovely

    • @peak_911
      @peak_911 7 месяцев назад

      It isn't about dad/parents dude, I'm thinking about "future" generation here, I would rather kill myself, than killing my kids future in India.
      India can be great, if the system changes, but the system doesn't allow the 'change'.

  • @adeepak7
    @adeepak7 4 года назад +41

    Hello sir! Please keep making such videos. Haters gonna hate! The important thing is, truth matters and it has to come out.

  • @DJEYkanjaria
    @DJEYkanjaria 4 года назад +7

    Sir, You're doing really great work to provide truthful information instead of giving false hopes. Really Respect your work, I hope you'll get million subscribers 😀

  • @purvammodi5257
    @purvammodi5257 3 года назад +1

    Your videos are so honest and insightful ! Keep doing the good work.

  • @somdeep1984
    @somdeep1984 3 года назад +3

    Thanks a lot for explaining it. Only a Prof with a PhD can do it. This video answers most of the questions I often ask. Thank you very much

  • @omkarpawar5451
    @omkarpawar5451 4 года назад +2

    Very nicely explained Sir! Thank you very much. We really need to know the ground reality. And only people like you with a big heart can tell us that. Thank you very much again! 🙏🏻

  • @anujymnit71
    @anujymnit71 4 года назад +15

    Just kidding , there is one basket which was not mentioned the "India basket" , containing all the baskets like a universal set. Wherever you throw the ball , it will always land in India basket.

  • @kartikagarwal3955
    @kartikagarwal3955 4 года назад

    great video sir. Thanks for it. You cleared many doubts

  • @paulroy9639
    @paulroy9639 3 года назад +11

    I can so relate to this, stayed in USA for 7+ years with a green card filed. But after facing infinite backlog due to per-country cap, moved to Australia as a PR, with an Indian born but practically American child :-) .... While income, size, and quality of life in unparalleled in the USA, sustainability, and peace of mind also needs to be considered... Thanks for the video ....

  • @rsraman123
    @rsraman123 4 года назад +16

    Very well made video. There is at a minimum 5-10 years of struggle to make it in the US even in the most lucky case these days (EB1 green card). And the fact that India now is not the India off 1990, tilts the favor in many cases towards A life in India. It’s a fact that most of the Indian technology graduates including IIT’ians these days choose to stay back in India as many opportunities are available in India compared to three decades ago.

  • @jitendraparanjiya372
    @jitendraparanjiya372 4 года назад +1

    Very well explained!! Good Job 🙌

  • @ALJTravel
    @ALJTravel 4 года назад +3

    Thanks for posting this video ,nicely explained all the key-points.This is the reality whether we accept or not.

  • @prave1
    @prave1 4 года назад +2

    I like the completeness of discussion and thanks for sharing it .

  • @gauravbarge
    @gauravbarge 4 года назад +11

    Truth is bitter but best serve cold.. right and partical advice

  • @swathih1
    @swathih1 3 года назад

    Very good video! Thank you for posting.

  • @abhromukherjee841
    @abhromukherjee841 3 года назад

    Again a great video. Good job Professor.

  • @AlysaIyana
    @AlysaIyana 4 года назад +4

    Heyyyy UTA!! Way to go Professor Desi!!

  • @rajathw
    @rajathw 3 года назад +3

    Great video. Facts and reality delivered without giving false hopes to those in this process.

  • @sachitajindal7509
    @sachitajindal7509 4 года назад

    Very well explained thanks alot. looking forward for such a nice video

  • @daud798
    @daud798 4 года назад

    Great Video. Very Nice and informative. Thank You

  • @ujjwal9781
    @ujjwal9781 4 года назад

    Sir you are a true inspiration! 🙏

  • @furqaanmonga
    @furqaanmonga 4 года назад +3

    Brilliantly explained

  • @mohammednadeemrocks
    @mohammednadeemrocks 4 года назад

    Sir, your approach of making videos is amazing. Thank you for making so informative videos.

  • @a2zuser1
    @a2zuser1 3 года назад

    thankyou for the clarifications

  • @PCHITALE
    @PCHITALE 4 года назад +4

    He is completely correct in either way, but I truly believe current administration must stop H1B program and also employment it's like "मृगजल" which is exaggerated picture of USA . This way outsourcing will increase and we Indian can stay near our love one and it's win win situation for every one. What is point in growing US company with our sweat and blood and with no appreciation from American.

  • @anshumanranjan7855
    @anshumanranjan7855 4 года назад +22

    Here is what I will say (I have lived Europe for long)
    Europe countries have easier immigration usually 5-6 years of timespan to Passport
    but the major reason why I still may eventually end up in USA after (1 year left to my EU passport ) is just the fact that all the major companies and innovation are still in USA (even if I can match even my Euro to USD salary) to grow up in an Org which is US based you will have to be in US
    People can take workarounds : Like get Canada passport and then move to US or get a EU passport and then move to US to get over the Visa issue and have a better peace of mind (which is what I plan)

    • @since_win_sins
      @since_win_sins 3 года назад +2

      Your Country of Birth doesn't matter eh???

    • @since_win_sins
      @since_win_sins 3 года назад +1

      Hey are you sure if I get EU PR then it will be easier for me to settle in US...

    • @bryandsouza9905
      @bryandsouza9905 2 года назад +3

      US green cards are not based on what passport you carry , but your country of birth . So you will still be lumped with Indians if your country of birth is India or high density work force

    • @peak_911
      @peak_911 7 месяцев назад

      Someone fooled you uncle, "you were still born in India", that's what matters to US.

  • @newsgroupsdata
    @newsgroupsdata 4 года назад +5

    Thank you for making this video professor. You have listed all the important points that many Indians are not aware before coming to the US on F1 or H1 visa. Some Indians may get GC easily through spouses or EB1, etc but majority of the Indian applicants are in the multi-decades queue. Please do not worry about giving a rebuttal to every critical comment. What you are describing is the reality and is very accurate. For the foreseeable future, until the GC backlog issue is solved, all Indians should treat coming to the US as a temporary plan and should expect to never get a GC/residency/citizenship akin to wht happens in the middle eastern countries. Always on work visa if thru F1/H1/L1 route.

  • @deepanjaliroy8717
    @deepanjaliroy8717 2 года назад +1

    This video opened my eyes to a whole different level . Thank you professor.

  • @bharadwaj25
    @bharadwaj25 2 года назад

    Very informative video, thank you !

  • @mnsweeps
    @mnsweeps 4 года назад +21

    I moved to US in 1993 almost 27 years back. And I absolutely love it here. But agree the situation was much easier though the process took some time.

    • @Jyyo
      @Jyyo 3 года назад +13

      You were lucky in terms of time.

    • @pvasir
      @pvasir 3 года назад +4

      I agree. I moved to USA on scholarship in 1979. Things were alot easier then.

    • @buriburizaemon1711
      @buriburizaemon1711 2 года назад

      @@pvasir apko green card milne me kitna time laga tha uss samae.

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Год назад

      @@buriburizaemon1711less than 5 years

  • @vineelk1978
    @vineelk1978 3 года назад

    Thanks for explaining in detail

  • @gavin9715
    @gavin9715 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for this video. Thanks for showing the reality.

  • @dakshayjakhia6291
    @dakshayjakhia6291 4 года назад +4

    Well said. I am sharing all your videos with my children as they are in to the process of flying out abroad for further studies and job opportunities. Gold mine of information as I said in earlier video too. God bless you.

  • @trishasingh6641
    @trishasingh6641 4 года назад +1

    Good explanation on family struggles

  • @lovekapunchnama2805
    @lovekapunchnama2805 4 года назад +4

    We love your realistic videos... Keep it up sir👌👍... Also appreciate your hindi & English language videos so that everyone can understand in India....

  • @Vishnyc
    @Vishnyc 4 года назад +2

    Well said professor 🙌🏻

  • @rudra844
    @rudra844 4 года назад

    Thanks professor for right guidance❤

  • @samyachatterjee6345
    @samyachatterjee6345 3 года назад

    You are giving right compliment.

  • @suhailpatel3271
    @suhailpatel3271 6 месяцев назад

    VERY USEFUL INFORMATION

  • @m_technical8597
    @m_technical8597 2 года назад +1

    I learned a lot from you.

  • @mayurdeshpande
    @mayurdeshpande 4 года назад

    Kudos! Very balanced. You provided view on opportunities with associated risks.

  • @hudaswaleheen2230
    @hudaswaleheen2230 4 года назад +4

    Both his views are exactly right. Forget about getting GC in EB2 in less then 15 yrs. EB1 was current when i moved to US in 2016, but now it has a backlog of almost 3 yrs. I moved from Germany and that is the biggest regret till now. The situations could vary from person to person, So B4 moving, do your research and be prepare to move back to India if nothing works here.

  • @binu44464
    @binu44464 4 года назад +1

    Very much informative.

  • @mohammeduddin9314
    @mohammeduddin9314 3 года назад

    i appreciate sir , you are totally 100% right

  • @pthe1689
    @pthe1689 4 года назад +1

    Thanks 🙏

  • @ChintanCG
    @ChintanCG 4 года назад

    great video. well explained

  • @fazalkhan4288
    @fazalkhan4288 4 года назад

    I like your honesty...Professor..and your desire to help and guide..... Young Middle Class Students and Job Aspirants.....by presenting true picture of USA.....God Bless you ...Keep going Sir 👍

  • @upinderbedi131
    @upinderbedi131 4 года назад +2

    Hi Chaitanya .. Canadians can work in the United States under TN visa (as per NAFTA). This visa is only processed at border ports only and only takes around 10-15 minutes to issue on a cost of $160.

  • @Harmony989
    @Harmony989 2 года назад

    Eye opener for aspirants..brain stroming..perfect teacher..👍

  • @one9clan132
    @one9clan132 4 года назад

    Professor if one is studying in top state government institute and University rankings is approx . 50 in india .. not that famous india wise but famous state wise ...will that cause trouble if one is planning to apply for for masters in usa

  • @007souravray
    @007souravray 4 года назад

    Well explained.
    Facing the same situation.

  • @AninditaNeogykathak
    @AninditaNeogykathak 3 года назад

    Super informative

  • @SiyaVibes
    @SiyaVibes 4 года назад +10

    Just came across your channel..
    Very practical and realistic 👏👏👏

  • @cageylove7302
    @cageylove7302 4 года назад

    Very well explained sir

  • @rahuljadhav-hj4qc
    @rahuljadhav-hj4qc 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for telling the truth with example of people u r really good person make more vedios on these reality specially reality u always speak truth tell us the truth.what we see on social media many times it is fake.

  • @Krblkn
    @Krblkn 3 года назад +12

    I am in Canada and for IT field I have never found it difficult to find a job. Got a job within 1 to 2 months everytime. Now I am about to apply for citizenship after having stayed here for 3 years as PR.

    • @lakshmip1467
      @lakshmip1467 3 года назад +1

      How many years of experience did you have at the time of applying for that job?

    • @karthik_kp13
      @karthik_kp13 2 года назад

      years of experience?

    • @achyuththouta6957
      @achyuththouta6957 2 года назад +1

      @@karthik_kp13 In Canada Indian IT experience doesn't count. They don't care about any other country experience other than US and Canada

    • @achyuththouta6957
      @achyuththouta6957 2 года назад

      @@lakshmip1467 In Canada they don't care about Indian IT experience or any other country's IT experience other than US and Canada. So it won't count. One of my relatives didn't get a job in IT in Canada despite having 3 years of experience and instead had to remotely work for a US company from Canada.

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Год назад

      Perfect decision

  • @prasadhonnavara875
    @prasadhonnavara875 2 года назад +2

    I can vouch for the authenticity of your lecture.being a father of 2 of my children who have settled in u.s now.i know the harsh n correct reality.wish you had such videos a decade ago.

  • @sunilkumarshetty9148
    @sunilkumarshetty9148 3 года назад +1

    Thanks a lot Bhat. My case is in your last 10 mins

  • @sathyaprabharani7610
    @sathyaprabharani7610 2 года назад

    Your explanation is very good 👍 and genuine.

  • @VijayKumar-yr6bk
    @VijayKumar-yr6bk 2 года назад +1

    I appreciate your point of view. My grandson went to USA for MS robot a little over a year.He has received a offer despite not yet completing MS. The company is internationally well known and the salary is quite handsome, beyond imagination.

  • @PromodhSridhar
    @PromodhSridhar 3 года назад +7

    Excellent bro... Very true.. I have been in the US and the unstable situation this is ever present every where in this country is not worth it .. Even if you earn lesser in india ..You are far more happiness and freedom - The Imigration here system here keeps near and dear ones apart and breaks lives and career.

  • @chrisbraganza8481
    @chrisbraganza8481 4 года назад +15

    Thanks for taking the time to provide Indian immigrants a detailed explanation on the H1b and green card process. I was very fortunate to come to the US in 1987 as a student. However, it was insanely hard. At age 27 I put myself thru a B.S in Computer Science and worked and put myself thru school. I was fortunate to get a job that sponsored me for my green card. In 1992, the H1B visa took me 1 month and the GC took me 12 months. I do understand these immigration steps are extremely difficult and have been made worse due to COVID. Professor thanks for taking the time to provide this detailed information to people wanting to come to the US from India. I now look back 33 years later and have no regrets in my life. Yes, it was incredibly hard but I think it was well worth it! To Indians wanting to come to the US as students or on H1b visa, I say, follow your dream!

    • @rukivverh888
      @rukivverh888 4 года назад +4

      The times have drastically changed.

    • @buriburizaemon1711
      @buriburizaemon1711 2 года назад

      Sahi h sir apka time golden time tha abb wo baat nhi h yaha india me bhi.

  • @veenitamalviya179
    @veenitamalviya179 3 года назад +1

    Plzz keep up with your good work....you are someone who lives in usa and has gone through the whole ordeal....I am still in 1st year of bsc in chemistry but I aspire to come to america for phd....because of you I have come to know a whole lot about phd and how it is to live in usa....thank u so much ......I now know what to expect what not to except how to keep my mindset

  • @SSmitar
    @SSmitar 4 года назад +1

    Been watching your channel since couple of months. Please don't take blind criticism too close to your heart, Prof. What you explained are general and fact based scenarios and you can't cover all the even and odd aspects in mere 10-20 mins videos. Keep up the good work.
    PS: I am an University of Texas at Arlington alumnus. Is that fall tall building Piccard Hall or University Center outside your office at end of the video? It's been couple of years since I graduated so kind of forgotten the layout.

  • @prasadhonnavara875
    @prasadhonnavara875 2 года назад

    Highly informative n illustrative video which is quite factual n true.

  • @ayandeb9409
    @ayandeb9409 3 года назад

    Very informative

  • @canadatriedandtestedoriginal
    @canadatriedandtestedoriginal 3 года назад

    Very engaging and true video. I am glad you are bringing honest opinion however people are not ready to accept the reality. I would suggest you to ignore negative comments. I have learnt that. In fact I am also in the same boat professor like you being honest about Canada. Glad I found your content.

  • @AhmedInTech
    @AhmedInTech 4 года назад +1

    Very informative. Do people concerned with education professions, like a university faculty face the same issues in green card ?

  • @solidguys1985
    @solidguys1985 3 года назад

    Well said.

  • @ajayreddy9219
    @ajayreddy9219 3 года назад +1

    I understood about how an H1b employee’s key to career growth is in the hands of his/her employer until the employer starts green card process of the employee.so before this,I.e for 6 years there are chances to get promotion just like any other employee in the company right?

  • @SatishKumar-sy9vx
    @SatishKumar-sy9vx 2 года назад

    आपके समझाने का तरीका बहुत ही अच्छा और सरल है आपकी वीडियो देखकर बहुत अच्छा लगा गॉड ब्लेस यू जय हिंद

  • @ariesstars2010
    @ariesstars2010 4 года назад

    Good one !!

  • @youmyname
    @youmyname 4 года назад

    You are intelligent and good person

  • @shankysays
    @shankysays 4 года назад

    Can you compare the situation to that of canada

  • @hrushs4748
    @hrushs4748 4 года назад

    I didn't see your complete video but my experience says you are showing true reality.

  • @hdkloh6857
    @hdkloh6857 4 года назад

    You speak about practical scenarios....

  • @chetnapoojari
    @chetnapoojari 4 года назад +1

    Thank you. You're a very good teacher/professor. :)

  • @anisinsinwar5580
    @anisinsinwar5580 4 года назад +1

    sir what is the future of indian physician in usa and which is the easiest way to get green card for the same. please reply sir

  • @gymi99
    @gymi99 4 года назад +2

    Hi, Thank you for your videos. They are very informative and clear, based on facts. I was going to ask you about what one should think about when going abroad for an advanced degree. I think one should check that the degree being sought abroad does not make you over-qualified for the majority of positions in your home country, if you have to go back, and if one does go for this degree, (s)he has contingency plan(s) in place. Also, is getting an advanced degree (anywhere) the only way one can acquire skills? Perhaps investing in (not necessarily paid) project work during college, that makes a big impact - I think you mentioned this in one of your videos. I am not sure if that would work in India, it could work in the US after recent regulations. It would be great to know your thoughts. Best regards, Satya.

  • @ramdaskaldate9309
    @ramdaskaldate9309 4 года назад

    Best information

  • @VikasChaudhary1
    @VikasChaudhary1 4 года назад +1

    You are just telling the truth, people need to know what they are stepping into

  • @rustumsingh6044
    @rustumsingh6044 3 года назад

    Its highly thankful jobthat the American prifessor is placing.Is there a chance of change in case economy improves?

  • @achyutakrishna
    @achyutakrishna 4 года назад

    Very good video. Thanks for sharing. Learn mother tongue.

  • @honeyslyf
    @honeyslyf 2 года назад +2

    My observation: if you wish to explore abroad options try to explore in your early 20's or prior to getting married, which would in turn help you avoid hassle in future, would be better in organising your spouce, kids and parents.

  • @02h31ao519
    @02h31ao519 4 года назад +19

    I paid the price of migrating to USA on Student visa then H1 and then Green Card. I could not go for my parents funeral. Total we lost more than 15 family members in this journey I couldn’t attend any of them including my parents. We earn for families when we can’t spend our time when they were in need then I don’t think this wealth and luxuries matter. This is my guilt for life. When we can do something in foreign country then we can do much more in our own countries.

    • @urwrong108
      @urwrong108 3 года назад +4

      Absolutely right... I stay only 300 km away n I worry everyday... Nothing is more then family.. Earn here n going for foreign tour is enough

    • @sathyaprabharani7610
      @sathyaprabharani7610 2 года назад

      Very good 👍 explanation sir

  • @EdManal
    @EdManal 4 года назад

    Bhot Badia sir

  • @tahseenbanu2889
    @tahseenbanu2889 2 года назад

    Hi sir...if someone gets h1 b visa on contract basis and it's finished then he or she can get another job on the contract basis of another term for six years what ever it would be

  • @christopherdsouza6188
    @christopherdsouza6188 4 года назад +30

    Extremely well explained bitter but very satisfying truth,I never like to be in soap bubbles !!!

  • @a.i.3025
    @a.i.3025 4 года назад

    Very nice and make sense

    • @a.i.3025
      @a.i.3025 4 года назад

      Dhobi ka kutta na ghar ka na ghat ka .

  • @priteshpophali8552
    @priteshpophali8552 4 года назад +2

    Sir please make video on education system in US how it is so effective?

  • @timbunana
    @timbunana 3 года назад +4

    it depends how you categories opportunities -- it could be personal job or opportunities for children.. in Canada you can own a decent house, decent car, modest vacation and citizenship in 5 years by working mediocre job...which i think people in US aspire for after finding their opportunities.. sacrificing their family life...

  • @indiancitizen6095
    @indiancitizen6095 4 года назад

    Sir please make a video on PIO/OCI card holders who are currently working or schooling in India.

  • @joybandopadhyay2557
    @joybandopadhyay2557 3 года назад +1

    Sir I am pursuing PhD from a government college under government University from electrical engineering... I have published one SCI journal in science direct Impact factor 5.5,sir if I publish some more SCI journals n complete my PhD can I apply for job in US?

  • @richmondhillsangat
    @richmondhillsangat 3 года назад

    Very True,

  • @wdp4wdm3a
    @wdp4wdm3a 4 года назад +1

    Sir i want to work on cutting edge technology and do masters in computer from a top 20-30 university. I am 25 but unfortunately won't be able to do my masters till i am 31 or 32 . Is it advisable to do a masters at that age ? I just want to work for a top tech company doing amazing innovative work and later become a freelance Machine learning engineer /Augmented reality developer in India in my 40s. I just want a window of 7-10 years to work on amazing stuff in the silicon valley. Is there any alternative to H1b or L1b?

  • @viral_singh
    @viral_singh 4 года назад

    You are doing really good work. Don't pay attention to unwarranted criticism. Majority of people are just plain stupid.

  • @siva9244
    @siva9244 4 года назад +4

    good...what i observed...10 saal ke baad me...kya hota...ye aap jo bataaye...is cheez ko kam log( who went to usa) sochte...majority think that aagaye..yahee reh sakte/ reh jaayenge....jab aasman toot padthahai....chillana shuru...thank you..vapas aane ke liya...pahle se hee...mentally/ financially...every way tayyar rehna...ya parents tayyar karna..is important. ye baath koyee samajhtaa hee nahee yaar...kya kare...my dekte hee..reh ja rahaa hu...agar mere bache vapas aagaye to unke liya yaha kuch jeene ke liye base banaavoo...one day they realise when they come out of their..usa- permanent- set up- mind-fixation se baahar aate hai...